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The Architecture of Intimacy
A research-grounded field guide to the everyday habits of healthy relationships. The Deep Edition is in production and is not yet available. The Complete Library’s 369 chapters are written, and the edition is in production. It is not yet available.
What the book will hold
Every one of the 369 green flags, grouped into 26 themes across 8 parts — each with its own plain-language chapter, the research behind it, and how to tell the real thing from its convincing counterfeits.
Grounded, and honest about it
The book draws on close-relationships science — the Gottman research, attachment theory, and emotionally focused therapy — and cites where it cites. Claims stay modest where the evidence is mixed. This is educational writing, not therapy or diagnosis.
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No rush, no hype
Until then, the whole field guide of 369 green flags is free to read online.